MIDDLE-AGED WOMEN: ADVICE FOR THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS

THIS SITE CATERS TO WOMEN OF A CERTAIN AGE, MIDDLE-AGE WOMEN, AND SHARES WAYS TO KEEP OUR STYLE UPDATED WITH EXAMPLES, TIPS AND ADVICE. WE ALSO DISCUSS FAMILY, HEALTH, AND PHYSICAL ISSUES THAT COME WITH BEING A FABULOUS MIDDLE-AGE FEMALE.


Tuesday, May 28, 2013

My Photo Rejuvenation Experience

FIRST OFFICE VISIT: May 15
Recently, I met with a skin care consultant at my dermatologist's office who recommended "PHOTO REJUVENATION" (broadband laser therapy) for my face.  I made the screening appointment because I was concerned about red, blotchy areas on my face in addition to a large red dot on my chest (decollag) plus one red dot by my eyebrow.  The consultant said that small, broken capellaries gave my face the appearance of red blotches and were a result of years of sun exposure as  a teen just now showing up on my 53-year old skin.  Additionally, the skin care consultant identified the red spots on my chest and face as "angiomas".  The skin care consultant advised that the red blotches and angiomas could be diminished with PHOTO REJUVENATION.  I plunked down $150 and prepared for my first photo rejuvenation session the following week.

Photo rejuvenation is a procedure where pin points of laser light are directed to small areas on the skin's surface to get rid of red dots, broken capellaries and other small imperfections.

Photo rejuvenation can be done on the face, chest, hands, arms and legs.  Costs vary.  My 1st session, as I mentioned, was $150 for treatment of my entire face and to zap a few red spots on my chest.  Hands only cost $300 for the first session, likewise legs (lower portion only) and arms.  Furthermore, aetheticians will tell you that "more than one treatment" may be necessary.  As you can see, costs can quickly add up and prices vary depending on whom you visit.

ANGIOMAS (Red spots)

The procedure goes like this: You recline in a dentist-style chair, eyes are covered to insure that your eyes do not suffer side effects of the laser style light.  An Aesthetician cleanses your face then begins the photo rejuvenation procedure.  Although you cannot see, the aesthetician positions the laser's point to areas of your face and then should warn you that a treatment is about to be administered.  Each laser zap feels akin to being shocked with a small zing of electricity.  It is superficial and hurts just for a second.  In other words, it is bearable!  After getting zapped on all of your red spots and veined areas, you are free to go.

An hour after my photo rejuvenation treatment (which lasted 30 minutes) I felt as if I had a moderate sunburn on my face which a dose of Ibuprofen took care of.  I looked the same, but with more of a red-tone to my face.  The next two days, I was (as warned) mildly puffy in the cheek area.  The 3 larger sized red dots (angiomas) on my chest turned dark brown by day 3, as did a red dot by my eyebrow.  Today, on day 7, those same 4 red dots are dark brown and shrinking in size.

Small, broken capellaries and veins on my cheeks remain the same - still red and spider-like and thoroughly unattractive.  I return to the dermatologist in 2 weeks for a follow up exam and I hope that one more treatment will get ride of the small veins on my cheeks.  Yes, I've fallen for the hype and won't back down now..I would love nothing more than to not have to use heavy concealers under my make up.

I will update in late June what happens after my second visit to the dermatologist's office.
SECOND OFFICE VISIT: June 14
I returned to the dermatologist's office 3 weeks after my first visit.  Although I had not been thrilled with the results after one week of my first photo rejuvenation treatment, I did see results in approx. 8-10 days.  The angioma by my eyebrow was 90% gone.  The larger angioma on my chest  was50% reduced.  Broken capellaries on my cheeks fared about 40% improvement.  Worst was the high cheekbone area which receives the hardest hit from the sun's rays.  SUN + Unprotected skin=BAD!   Yes, I plunked down ANOTHER $150. 

I wore NO Makeup into my second session and she zapped my red spots and tiny veins.  Six days from my second treatment, I have to say I see a 20% improvement.  I'm holding out for better results in the coming week or two.  Will I go back for a third photo rejuvenation treatment?  Maybe.  I'll keep you posted.




Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Pants for Women with Tummies


I dearly wish that it was not necessary to write about a subject matter such as "Pants For Women With Tummies", but I must confess that such a need exists...for myself.

Luckily, my legs and hips are holding up just fine, fitting into the size 10 or 12 range.  But my belly?  (Don't you just hate that word, 'belly'?)  Well, my tummy has taken a turn for the worse over the last few years (years!) and I may often be found residing in a pair of comfy work-out pants.  You know the kind of work-out pants I'm talking about; stretchy, boot cut pants almost always in a shade of black.

Don't get me wrong, I do indeed work out, and therefore have earned the right to wear exercise pants.  Yet, I find more frequently that I look upon my stretchy exercise-style pants as a uniform of sorts.  Stretchy pants, if you will, are my "go to" garb of choice for the lower body.  However, the concept of wearing these stretchy slacks all day long is taking a toll on my psyche.  Where is my pride?  Why do I no longer wear fashionable clothing?  Should I blame it on my rotund torso?

Well, for your information, I do blame my lack of fashion-conscious attire on my waist circumference (a much nicer word than "girth", isn't it?)  Clothing options for women with average thigh and hip sizes who are also carrying an extra couple pounds in the waist have very few choices when it comes to clothes that fit well and look fashion-forward.  (Much like the dilemma a gal with plump arms faces, but that's a different story.)

I used to be fashionable, trust me.  What else would you call a women in her 20's wearing a black bra exposed under a tank top a' la' Madonna?  Of course, that was in the 1980's.  I once wore a size 8, had a sweet golden tan, and carried a giant can of hair spray in my purse just like the other 20-somethings.  But then I had kids in my 30's and everything went to hell.  Not my life, you understand, just my body and desire to look "hot".  Who cares about feeling sexy playing with the kids at the park?  Hubby never said a word, so onward I marched, deeper into mommy hood and the fashion pitfalls it secretly wields

Sure, not all moms are like me, caving in to comfort versus style.  I have friends with kids who are fabulously decked out no matter what time of day or night it may be.  I even have one friend who serves as a style consultant to refined women (which explains why she has never offered her services to me.)

My new mission, as of late, is to search for pants that will show that I can wear fashion-forward clothes and still be comfortable.  Because, if there's one thing a gal with a hefty (another hated word) waist needs, it's a flexible waistband she can breath - I mean feel comfortable - in.

While searching for pants for women with tummies, I realized a few important "DON'TS" for women with thicker middles:

1. Avoid Crop Pants.  If you have a generous waist, you will look like a squished marshmallow; short and stubby with a soft middle if you pull on a pair of these pants designed for clam-digging.  Trust me.

2.  Ban The Belt.  I don't care what anyone says, slap a belt around a burgeoning torso and that's right where someone's eyes will fall.  Belts attract attention to your middle and that's all there is to it - try it sometime, you'll see that I'm correct.

Okay, so what pants for women with tummies are a good bet?  Glad you asked.

1. Slip on jeans.  Do not laugh.  Jeans with trim stitched in the manner of regular jeans, such as those by Peck & Peck are comfortable slip-on jeans without buttons or zippers.  The waistband of slip on jeans is gentle and forgiving and well-designed slip on jeans such as those by Peck & Peck do not resemble maternity jeans as so many types of slip on jeans for women do.  I really like Peck & Peck jeans and purchased mine at Stein Mart.

2. Skirts.  Sure, a skirt is not a pair of pants, but they can be very comfortable and flattering.  If your legs have seen better days, wear tights under a skirt, or try wearing a pair of snug cotton leggings.  You'll look trendy and feel sassy.  Short gals need to avoid skirts that are too long and tall women can get away with any length of skirt, you lucky ladies!

3.  Drawstring pants.  Old Navy carries cotton drawstring pants in the summer that are comfortable and look nice.  Avoid drawstring pants that hike toward your armpits to keep a frumpy look at bay.

4.  Exercise pants.  Yes, you heard me correctly.  "But," you may ask, "aren't you trying to avoid wearing exercise pants?"  The answer is "Yes, and no" because I know that I cannot let go of my love of comfy, stretchy pants created with just a touch of Lycra or Spandex to help to keep my junk from jiggling (or so I like to think).  The key to buying exercise pants is to seek out those with fashionable colors such as purple, pink, or perhaps white.  Victoria's Secret offers cute casual pants with graphics that are alluring.  Additionally, BCBG carries several lines of casual gym-style pants with embellishments.

March on and seek out new ways to rock the fashion world, ladies!  Comfort and style can work together if you put your thinking cap on.

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